After having a boyfriend for 2 yrs I found myself single. Since I was 16, the longest I went without a boyfriend was 7 months...at age 42. My friends new I was ready to date - both my male & female friends knew this. It had also been 7 months since I had sex...also the longest time since I was 16.
One night, about midnight, a friend, RM - who didn't drink often - called me from a bar. I could tell he was drunk just due to the fact it was late, he was giggling (Ryan's not a giggler) & he had a proposition for me. He had a 23 yr old friend who's fantasy had always been to be with a teacher. He handed the phone to CC or Chucky Cheese as my friends soon called him. We chatted for a few minutes & I agreed to a date. Chucky Cheese was the beginning of my time as a "cougar."
~a brief digression...is a woman a "cougar" even though she doesn't pursue these younger "cubs" but they pursue her? just a thought...
CC came over and we went out to a local pool hall. There was a pretty bad & very loud band so we fit in as much conversation as possible. Nice guy, funny, cute, smart...AND 20 YRS YOUNGER THAN ME! (would that be 20 yrs my senior? never could figure that out...) But we went back to my place anyway. And made out on the couch like a couple of teenagers (thank God for friends & family - my son spent the night out). And stripped up the stairs to my room. And had the best sex I'd had in years! Damn the younguns have stamina! What a great night! & then I had no idea what to expect; what to do; what to think.
I think we went to breakfast before I took him to the metro...or did he stay that day? I can't remember. But we did "date" for a bit until I almost ruined it. People in there 20s now are different than when my generation was in their 20s...more on that later ;).
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