Friday, April 23, 2010

moving on...

literally, since i did move back to Texas!  prior to departing for TX, Teach looked me up again.  we hadn't spoken in 8 or 9 months so i was quite a bitch at first.  then he explained the reason for the absence - nothing good, many family difficulties over those months - and i agreed to see him before i left.  he was very upset i was leaving & tried to convince me to stay, though ;-p.  we do, of course, keep in touch.  hell, i keep in touch with all my boys from the last year!

well, the summer was extremely busy with the move and trying to find a job and all.  i didn't have time to date johnny depp if he'd asked!  and i really didn't care either.  my main concern was finding a job, finding a house to rent & getting my son & i settled before the school year began.  of course, i wasn't opposed  to dating either....

once i realized i'd be staying in the houston area, i then realized it was time for some fun!  one of my g-friends & I went to a really cool sports bar in her neighborhood where we proceeded to get a little drunk.  ok, i'm lying...very drunk!  that's when i met the Older Dude.  my girl, Shine, & i were having a good time laughing & drinking & flirting when he came over.  i don't exactly remember what was said, but i do recall making out with him at the bar like a teenager & giving him my number.  which i was pleased he decided to use :).  oh i was so proud of myself.  this guy was definitely older than me!  that's a good thing, i thought!  i was very excited with the thought of hearing from him & going on a real date!!  i am such a silly, gullible girl.

yes!  he did call & he suggested we meet at a local bar 1/2 way between us.  worked for me...i figured if we hit it off then, we would go on a real date another time.  ~ digression:  i'm lucky my son is a teen & he is friends with my friend's kids so he can hang out with them when i choose to go out ~ i though that since he was older than the guys i'd been dating that maybe there was a chance at a real relationship. HAHAHA!  such a silly girl am i!  we meet at the restaurant bar, have a couple of drinks and he proceeds to tell me how he's not looking for a girlfriend, just someone to hang out with, have a good time with & have a lot of sex with.  it came out in the convo that sex was the priority for Older Dude (ok, he's only 3-4 yrs older than me but a LOT older than those i'd been dating).  he also leered...yuck!  all i could think about, after my 3rd glass of wine, was getting out of there & how if i ever started a blog about dating he would definitely make it to the blog as comedy relief!

after my 3rd glass of wine and an appetizer and the lecherous conversation i bid adieu.  he insisted on walking me to my car.  he insisted on kissing me, which wasn't difficult since i do like to kiss & i was feeling very relaxed.  then...the strangest ending to a date i've ever had!  Older Dude grabbed my hand, put it on the crotch of his pants over his hard dick & said, something to the effect of, "see what you do to me!"  HAHAHAAAHAAAA!  I HAD TO FIGHT TO HOLD IN THE LAUGHTER!  i mumbled something, jumped in the car & sped off!  REALLY!?  i knew then i was in for a long, strange dating life in houston, tx!

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